Decisions around becoming a parent. Fertility and child loss.

Children are the future. Having children is a choice we all make. But for some, the choice is taken away.

This is such a delicate subject and rightly so. Navigating conversations around having children, conceiving and child loss can be difficult. Which is why I would like to explore it here and invite anyone who may be struggling, to come and talk to me.

If being a parent is a scary thought but it’s something you want, or maybe you are unsure but your partner is 100% sure, these are things that can be explored in counselling.

Climate anxiety is a valid reason to feel bringing children into the world is something that takes a lot more thought and consideration. For some it is a big decision, while for others, it’s a given.

If only it were as easy as that though. For many people fertility and conception is a journey fraught with pain, sadness, disappointment, blame and loss. More additional support here… https://www.tommys.org/

Perhaps you are struggling to conceive or have suffered a loss. Having someone to talk this through with, can help and lessen the pressure on a relationship. Loosing a baby to miscarriage is a trauma, and for some it is never spoken about or processed.

The impact that deciding to have a baby can have on a relationship can create a stalemate. Do you feel you’re at a crossroads, on a different page to your partner?

Perhaps you are a new parent and having a baby is not what you expected and you are experiencing intrusive thoughts, depression and or anxiety. This can happen to both partners within the relationship. Speaking to a counsellor independently can allow the space for individuals to explore their thoughts, feelings and behaviours. Doing this can open the floodgates for more open communication within the relationship.

If any of these points are impacting on you, please get in touch for a free assessment, to see how counselling can help.